I Need to Clean But I Don’t Want To! – Day 1

Let’s get right into the nitty gritty on day one, shall we? We live in a fast paced, buy now and pay later kind of world. That lends itself to our thought patterns on many things including cleaning.

If we’re honest, some of us love check lists and cleaning plans because they allow us to skip or procrastinate certain tasks. (Tweetable) However, let me point out that if you only clean your counters, do your dishes, and vacuum once a month then you are going to have problems. Problems of the health and safety variety. Stay away from any writings or dialogue that tells you it is okay to do that. You will retrain your brain to think once a month is normal and your family and your home will suffer for it. We won’t even mention how burnt out you’ll be. Besides, would you allow your child to sleep over at a friend’s house if you knew they only cleaned certain things once a month? I didn’t think so.

We need to just wake up and face the fact that we are going to spend more than 20-30 minutes a day cleaning.(Tweetable)  If you learn to think ahead you can do less and less because by planning and prepping (which will become second nature to you and take mere seconds) you will cut the time it takes to do certain chores.

Let’s consider the internal dialogue:

Scene: You are cooking as well as multi-tasking other things.

“I’ll just put this big pot to the side and rinse it later with all of the others. I need to get this done first so that it is ready on time.” (phone rings)

Four minutes later you are behind on checking the buns in the oven and now have to scrape off the edges so your kids will eat it. By the time you are done you have to set the table and sit the kids down to eat. After dinner you spend a few minutes catching up with the hubby and by the time you realize it, the pan you left unrinsed on the counter will now require the equivalent of a blowtorch to remove the stuck on goo.

At this point you resign the pot to dish purgatory where it will sit for a day or two until you are mentally ready to tackle it.

Did I paint an accurate picture?

I think all too often many of our tasks end up this way. Those of us with the “I’ll do it when I have the time to do them all and do them right” mentality usually end up spending hours fixing something that would have taken only minutes had we done just a little bit of prep work and forethinking.

That particular scene would have been less dramatic for mom had she simply stuck the pot in the sink and started running the water. That would have required the little bit of forethought to not fill the sink completely with dishes while cooking. Instead, she could stick those dishes on the counter instead of the pot. Does that make sense?

I hope so. I also hope you are on board with this. We need to retrain our brain, get off our bums, and make a house a home! You with me?

To read the other posts in this series: 31 Days to a Clean, Fresh Nest.

For more blogger’s participating in the “31 Days” series visit Nesting Place.

Comments

  1. Honey, you had me at the title! I think I am going to love this series; I certainly need the kick up the butt! Thank you.

  2. Jalet says:

    Amy I have a chicken vs the egg kind of question. IS is better to start with a discard than a clean if both are of equal need and time is limited? The perfectionist in me wants to do both. The practical side of me knows time is limited and I will have to approach this in bites. The organizer in me wants to see what I have to organize by getting rid of clutter first. There are some layers here and not sure which would be the best idea for the most instant gratification to keep me going.

  3. Barbie says:

    I’ve been up for 2.5 hours, and all I’ve done is drink coffee and read blogs. I need to get moving! Looking forward to your posts.

  4. Ok! You just kicked my butt, after I spent all morning obsessing over my blog and getting started on this 31 days. Reading the rest of you guys is just what I need! I am gonna now put away my computer and go tackle that sink. Thanks!

    • Amy Bayliss says:

      I write the way I need to read things. I need a good butt kicking every now and then. Sometimes my “I want to” list comes before my “I have to” list and that makes it harder on me in the end. Thankfully (after more than 15 years of homemaking) I am finally learning that lesson. :)

  5. Kim says:

    Hi! I just came over from The Nester and I’m so glad that I did! This is just what I need…no sugar coating…just get up and get busy. I have definitely been too easy on myself! I can’t wait to read more! Kim

    • Amy Bayliss says:

      I don’t like sugar coating either. If you give me a way out then I am going to take it. We just need to get it done and move on to better things. Hopefully I can share some of what I’ve learned to lighten and shorten the load. :) So glad you stopped by!

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